Trust & Safety
Built for trust — not for swiping.
Invite-only · Stockholm · For serious relationships
AI transparency
Aivelyn explains every match — the dimensions, the reasons and the uncertainty behind it. Black boxes are forbidden.
Your data, your control
You own your answers. No data is sold or shared with third parties. Everything is handled within the EU under GDPR.
Security
Encrypted storage, row-level security and no anonymous access to profiles — your information is protected at every layer.
Moderation
The system flags inappropriate behaviour automatically, and every chat can invite Aivelyn as a moderator when it's needed.
Delete anytime
A self-service flow lets you permanently remove your account and data whenever you choose.
It doesn't write “hi” for you. It helps you understand who's worth saying hi to.
You own the story. You control the sharing.
Trust & privacy
Built for trust — not for swiping.
Aivelyn handles the most personal things you have. That's why moderation, privacy and AI transparency aren't fine print — they are the product.
- 100%
- of profiles are verified before entering the beta
- 70+
- questions behind every match — never random suggestions
- 24 h
- response time on reports of inappropriate behaviour
- 0
- profiles sold or shared with advertisers
Moderation
Active moderation, around the clock
- Automatic flagging of inappropriate language and behaviour in chat
- Every report is reviewed by a human — and you get an answer
- Report straight from the chat or from Settings
- Verified profiles; fake accounts are permanently removed
Privacy
Your answers are never shown raw
- Others see compatibility and themes — never your exact answers
- Sensitive questions on faith, health and politics stay optional
- No selling or sharing of personal data with third parties
- Data stored in the EU, encrypted at rest and in transit
AI transparency
You see why — never a black box
- Every match shows dimension scores and concrete reasons
- You adjust the distribution of the 100 points yourself
- AI suggests and explains — the decision is always yours
- We never use your conversations to train external models
Your control
Delete your profile whenever you want
- Permanently delete your profile with one click in Settings
- Download all your data in a machine-readable format (GDPR)
- Pause your profile without losing your answers
- Withdraw individual consents at any time
What testers say
“The first time an app has actually understood what I'm looking for — and could explain why.”
“The friction radar put words to something we'd argued about for two years. It became a conversation, not a fight.”
Start with a conversation.
Spend less of your life searching for love – and more of it living it.