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Relationship mode
The support doesn't end when you've found each other.
Aivelyn already knows how the two of you work. In relationship mode that knowledge is used to help you understand each other better — with advice that's specific to you, not generic tips.
Communication advice
You get to understand each other's communication styles — how you express needs, handle closeness and what's easily misunderstood between you.
Conflict support
Based on your profiles, Aivelyn shows which conflicts are likely for you, what they usually come down to and how to get through them.
Relationship insights
Concrete conversation topics, exercises and insights that help you keep growing together — not just during the infatuation.
Human + AI
AI that helps you see more clearly — with human judgement where it adds value.
Aivelyn sees patterns in your profiles — your communication styles, possible friction points and strengths as a couple — and makes them understandable to both of you.
You get concrete guidance on what to talk about, how to handle difficult conversations and what to do when you get stuck in the same discussion again. Aivelyn never replaces the conversation between you.
Aivelyn knows your story from before it became your story.
What you get
Your shared profile
A picture of your two personalities — together, not apart.
Likely conflicts
What's likely to chafe between you, and why.
Different communication styles
How you reach each other when things are charged.
Ongoing relationship advice
Conversation topics and exercises when you need them.
How to get access
Included in Elite
Relationship mode is part of Elite from day one — no add-on needed.
Add-on for Core
Core members can add relationship mode once you have a mutual match.
Standalone for couples
Already a couple? Relationship mode can be used on its own, to keep developing your relationship in a positive direction.
Demo · inside Relationship mode
This is Relationship mode once you are up and running.
Real views from the app: the friction radar built on your check-ins, plus date and conversation ideas from your answers.
Watch the relationship evolve weekly
Short check-ins from both of you turn into a clear picture of safety, closeness, pace and trust – with themes to talk about before they become conflicts.
Couples on relationship mode
Couples on relationship mode
”We talk differently now. The small missions made us have the conversations we'd been putting off.”
— Sara & Johan, 2 years ”The question bank made us put words to things we only half knew about each other.”
— Elin & Mikael, newly engaged ”Rebecca became our neutral friend when we got stuck in the same discussion again.”
— Anna & Erik, 6 years
“We talk differently now. The small missions made us have the conversations we'd been putting off.” Sara & Johan, 2 years
“The question bank made us put words to things we only half knew about each other.” Elin & Mikael, newly engaged
“Rebecca became our neutral friend when we got stuck in the same discussion again.” Anna & Erik, 6 years
Common questions
How it works — and what's required from both of you.
How does relationship mode work?
Both of you answer the question bank separately. Aivelyn builds your shared profile and you get tailored missions, conversation guides and a weekly check-in — all based on your answers.
What's needed from both partners?
Both fill in the questions honestly, both consent to the analysis, and both join the weekly check-in (about 5 minutes). The support only works when both are in.
We're already a couple — do we have to match through Aivelyn?
No. As a couple you buy relationship mode as a standalone service and start right away with your shared profile.
Can my partner see my exact answers?
No. Your partner sees summaries and insights — never your raw answers — unless you choose to share them. Even your shared check-in shows as a curve, not individual scores.
How is our privacy protected?
Answers are analyzed to tailor the support and stored encrypted under GDPR within the EU. Nothing is ever shared with third parties. You can withdraw consent anytime — your shared data is then deleted within 30 days.
How does billing work?
Relationship mode is 149 SEK/month, billed monthly in advance. Payment is charged automatically by card. There's no commitment — cancel whenever you want and keep access until the end of the paid month.
What happens after a date?
After a date, you get a weekly check-in to reflect on how it felt. Aivelyn gives ongoing conversation topics and missions tailored to how the date went — so the conversation keeps growing rather than stopping at the date.
How is the AI support used?
Aivelyn analyzes both your profiles to give personal advice — your communication styles, likely conflicts and concrete conversations. The AI doesn't write for you; it helps you see each other more clearly. Behind the AI is Aivelyn's relationship expertise and review of the advice.
Can we cancel anytime?
Yes. The service is monthly and cancels with no notice period. You keep the insights you've already gained, but your shared data is deleted.
More on how we handle data in our privacy policy.