Relationship Intelligence

Understand yourself. Grow closer together.

Discover your strengths, needs, and patterns. Get personal support to grow, meet a partner, or strengthen the relationship you already have.

Aivelyn offers support for reflection and does not replace a psychologist or therapy.

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Aivelyn Core & Circles is free, with no time limit.

The first 300 verified members get Matchmaker free for three months, with no payment method and no automatic billing. Relation: 14 days free, then SEK 69 per person per month.

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How to get started

Three simple steps.

Start for free with Core. Explore a paid upgrade when it becomes useful to you.

  1. 1. Choose a focus

    Understand yourself, meet a partner, or strengthen your relationship. You can change your focus at any time.

  2. 2. Tell us about yourself

    Evelyn asks questions at your pace to build a picture of your strengths, needs, and patterns.

  3. 3. Support that grows with you

    Practical steps for yourself, matches when available, and shared conversations when you are a couple.

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Aivelyn Matchmaker

Most apps show you more people. Aivelyn helps you choose people who fit your life.

Finding love should not feel like a second job. Aivelyn gets to know you, makes an initial selection, and explains who could be a good fit for your life.

Fewer matches. Better meetings.

Relationship mode

Love isn't the finish line.
See each other. Grow together.

Once you have found each other, that same understanding can help you see each other more clearly, work through friction, and keep growing together.

  • Understand your communication patterns
  • Explore what lies behind friction
  • Find practical conversations and small steps forward
Discover Aivelyn Relation
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Aivelyn Relation

When you're in a relationship: support that helps you understand each other.

Aivelyn is not just a shortlist. It is coaching, missions, conversation support and a network of people you trust. The same support is also available for couples who want to develop their relationships even further.

AI Coach Evelyn

Ask the question you hesitate to ask

An AI guide that can use selected profile context and responds in text or voice when the feature is available.

We always fight about the same thing. Why?
Your profiles show different needs for preparation. Try setting the frame before the talk.

Weekly mission

Small steps that actually happen

Concrete shared missions that give you something focused to try and discuss.

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Tell each other one thing you appreciated this week – with no “but” attached.

Circles

Meet people through people you trust

Start a circle around an interest or a city – and introduce your single friends to each other.

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Your relationship profile

See yourself in plain words

72 questions can become a readable profile covering areas such as personality, values and communication style.

Openness78%
Security64%
Pace52%

Trust & privacy

Built for trust — not for swiping.

Relationship data is personal. Aivelyn therefore shows what is used, what others can see and which choices you can change.

72
questions in the complete matching profile
10
areas that can contribute to compatibility
100
points you distribute across what matters most
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people whose priorities count equally in a shared score

Moderation

Report, block and leave

  • Report inappropriate behaviour from the app
  • Blocking ends contact and shared access
  • Urgent reports are marked for priority in the safety queue
  • In immediate danger, always contact local emergency services

Privacy

Your answers are never shown raw

  • Others see compatibility and themes — never your exact answers
  • Intimacy questions only count when both people answered
  • Partner data reaches Evelyn only after mutual consent
  • Row-level rules restrict access to profiles

AI transparency

You see why — never a black box

  • Every match shows dimension scores and concrete reasons
  • You adjust the distribution of the 100 points yourself
  • The match score comes from answers and weighting – not a free-form AI guess
  • Evelyn separates known information from interpretation and never diagnoses

Your control

Delete your profile whenever you want

  • Permanently delete your profile with one click in Settings
  • Download all your data in a machine-readable format (GDPR)
  • Pause your profile without losing your answers
  • Change consent for sharing with a partner

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AI can help you find each other. The meeting is yours.

A good connection needs room to grow. In Circles, shared interests can be a starting point for friendship or dating. Would you rather meet through an activity than begin with a long chat? A walk, a quiz or a creative evening can give you something to share from the start.