Relationship Intelligence
Aivelyn gets to know you deeply and makes the first selection for you – so you only spend time on people who could actually fit your life.
A mirror, not a mediator.
Invite-only · Stockholm · For serious relationships
Invite-only · Stockholm · For serious relationships
Private beta · Stockholm
Aivelyn is now in private beta in Stockholm.
During the beta, Core, Relationship Mode and Circles are free for approved members.
Why Aivelyn
You shouldn't have to make finding love a second job. Aivelyn gets to know you, makes the first selection and explains who could actually fit your life.
Fewer matches. Better meetings.
Stop searching.
Dating shouldn't be your second job.
Not just 87%. Why the two of you.
It doesn't write “hi” for you. It helps you understand who's worth saying hi to.
Less screen time. More reality.
A dating app that would rather you leave it.
A different way in
You don't have to summarise an entire life in a bio. Let understanding grow in the right order.
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Let Aivelyn get to know how you think, live and love.
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Get a living relationship profile — not a test result.
03
Aivelyn searches and shows what could actually fit.
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Spend time on a real meeting, not on searching.
You don't have to search.
Relationship Intelligence
The same intelligence follows the relationship — without taking it over.
Find
Aivelyn makes the first selection and gives you 1–3 curated introductions a week. No endless feed.
Understand
See where you align, where you differ and what is still uncertain — before you spend 90 minutes on a meeting.
Grow
Once you've found each other, the same intelligence helps you understand communication, friction and direction together.
More than matching
Aivelyn is not just a shortlist. It is coaching, missions, conversation support and a network of people you trust.
Psychologist Rebecca
An AI coach that knows your relationship profile and answers in text or voice – around the clock.
Weekly mission
One concrete mission a week, chosen from where you rub right now – not generic tips.
Tell each other one thing you appreciated this week – with no “but” attached.
Circles
Start a circle around an interest or a city – and introduce your single friends to each other.
Your relationship profile
70+ questions become a readable profile of personality, values and communication style.
You see why
Not just a score. See where you align, where you differ and what is worth being curious about.
Is this person worth 90 minutes of your life?
Not just 87%. Why the two of you.
Relationship mode
Once you've found each other, the same understanding can help you see each other more clearly, meet friction and keep growing together.
Trust & privacy
Aivelyn handles the most personal things you have. That's why moderation, privacy and AI transparency aren't fine print — they are the product.
Moderation
Privacy
AI transparency
Your control
What testers say
“The first time an app has actually understood what I'm looking for — and could explain why.”
“The friction radar put words to something we'd argued about for two years. It became a conversation, not a fight.”
Beta · Stockholm
Spend less of your life searching for love – and more of it living it.
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