Match Report

Understand why the two of you.

Example using fictional answers – no real user data

You see why before you meet. Every suggestion comes with a full report — not a verdict.

Sample report · fictional material

From answers to a conversation you can actually have

This is an educational example written by Aivelyn. The people and answers are fictional. It shows four selected areas, not a complete calculated match report, a user result or the story of a real couple.

Values

Fictional answers: Both want to talk openly about money and share everyday responsibilities.
How it could be explained: A shared starting point to explore. The same words may mean different things in practice.
Take into the conversation: What would a fair division of responsibilities look like in an ordinary week?

Lifestyle

Fictional answers: One enjoys spontaneous weekends. The other prefers to plan ahead.
How it could be explained: A difference worth discussing. The question is whether you can find a routine that works for both people.
Take into the conversation: What would you like to decide in advance, and what could stay open?

Communication

Fictional answers: One wants to talk immediately when something feels wrong. The other wants time to think first.
How it could be explained: You may need to agree on how to pause and return to a conversation.
Take into the conversation: How can we ask for a break while showing that we want to come back to the conversation?

Interests

Fictional answers: Both enjoy being outdoors, but have different exercise routines.
How it could be explained: A possible conversation starter or activity. A shared interest does not predict how a relationship will turn out.
Take into the conversation: Which outing would you enjoy even if it did not have to be a perfect date?

Aivelyn matching, explained

What does AI do, and what is calculated from your answers?

The AI interview helps you express and clarify your answers. You review them before they become input for your profile.
Matching compares profile answers and what both people seek in a partner. Basic filters and mutual preferences affect which suggestions are possible.
You distribute 100 priority points across the areas. Both people’s priorities count equally. If you allocate 30 to an area and the other person 10, your shared weight is 20 before adjustment for available information. This illustrates weighting; it is not a 20 percent chance of a successful relationship.
The report’s explanations make the result possible to discuss. The score describes how answers fit under the model. It cannot measure future chemistry, replace your judgement or tell you how someone will actually treat you.

You still need to ask, listen and meet in a way that feels right for both people. More information in a profile is not the same as knowing a person.

Step by step · fictional calculation

How both people’s priorities shape the score

Here we show only how weighting works, using two invented area scores for Alex and Sam. The numbers 80 and 60 were chosen to explain the calculation; they do not come from real users. This is not a complete match calculation or the result in the sample report.

How the full matching process differs

In the system, area scores are calculated from your answers. Intent and pace are calculated separately and, alongside other areas, can contribute to the overall score according to your priorities. If you have not chosen your own priorities, Aivelyn uses default weights. Mutual preferences and basic filters also affect which people can be suggested.

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Two selected areas – invented scores
Area	Alex’s priority	Sam’s priority	Shared weight	Invented area score
Values	30	10	20	80/100
Communication	10	30	20	60/100

First, answers are compared within each area using each question’s comparison method. Questions may look at similarity or how answers complement each other. Here we assume 80 for values and 60 for communication.
Both people’s priorities count equally: (30 + 10) / 2 = 20 for values and (10 + 30) / 2 = 20 for communication. Alex’s priority does not override Sam’s.
For these two selected areas, the weighted average is (80 × 20 + 60 × 20) / (20 + 20) = 70 out of 100. We have left other areas out to make the calculation easy to follow. So 70 is not Alex and Sam’s complete compatibility score.

What does this mean before meeting?

70 out of 100 does not mean a 70 percent chance of a happy relationship. Missing answers do not mean poor compatibility, and a high score can rely on limited information. Use the report to choose what to ask: ‘We seem to share values – how do they show up in your daily life?’ and ‘What do you need when a conversation becomes difficult?’

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Reflection questions from Aivelyn

Six questions before and after meeting

Choose one or two questions and use your own notes. They do not produce a score or assessment. No answers are collected here.

Which three things do I need in everyday life to feel good in a relationship?
Which preferences can I be flexible about, and where are my boundaries?
What concrete example shows what my most important value means to me?
Which difference would I like to ask about rather than immediately treating it as a problem?
Which shared activity could help us get to know each other?
After meeting: did I feel heard, could I be myself, and would I like to meet again?

Ten compatibility areas

What the overall score is built from.

Intent & tempo

Values

Life situation

Relationship style

Personality

Lifestyle

Communication & love languages

Intimacy & sexuality

Intellectual match

Interests

Before you meet

Icebreakers and conversation topics.

You both mentioned wanting to travel more — where would you start?
Ask about the value you'd never compromise on.
Talk about what a good weekend actually looks like for each of you.

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About your match

Johan, 41

Stockholm

Compatibility

Extremely high

Where your answers align

You both describe wanting a long-term relationship, appreciate quality time and have similar views on family and daily life.

Based on your answers – not a prediction of your relationship.

Explore each area

Intent & pace96%

Values88%

Life situation84%

Communication & love languages81%

Relationship style78%

Personality74%

Intimacy & sexuality71%

Lifestyle66%

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